"But I don't want to get on T."After a few too many of these conversations with people trying to tempt me into the use of T as a magical solution to all my problems, even when I knew it was a far more permanent body-alteration than I wanted to go for, I became so afraid that all this pressure to take T might eventually tempt me into doing something I'd later regret that I started to distance myself from the trans communities in order to avoid the pressurebesides which, I was getting absolutely no new useful passing tips that would work for me anyway, so there wasn't a lot of value for me in continuing to wait around hoping for some.
"Well, you'll never achieve anything believeable unless you use T. It's not hard to get, you can get on it quicker than you think."
"But I don't want anything to do with T! I'm only interested in easily reversible effects! Come on, I just want some easy passing tips for changing my voice and such."
"Then you'll have to take T. It'll make your voice just perfect in no time at all. What's wrong with you, why wouldn't you want to take T? It's obviously exactly what you need. All you have to do is get over this silly hangup about not wanting to take the very thing which is exactly what you need."